6 little things to help you love your work, and get paid very well for it

Recently I attended a seminar that was about loving your work. It’s a really crucial thing for us to enjoy our work, especially considering the amount of time most of us spend doing it. Personally I’ve found I’d rather earn less doing a job I really like, than doing a job that pays really well but gives me that Sunday evening feeling where you dread going in on Monday.

The advice given at the seminar was not only how to love your work, but how to love your work and get paid really well doing it. Here I shall share with you what the speaker shared with me.

I’ve broken down the seminar into 6 key areas, learn about these and apply them to your life and you are guaranteed more success and satisfaction.

1) Our Belief Systems (BS :) ) are the number one reason for not earning more and you need to be aware of what yours are, improving where necessary.

Conviction that you will succeed financially and in your career/business is very important. To learn more about belief systems an excellent starting point is a Tony Robbins book or course, he talks about belief systems and how to change them in great depth.

2) Being in flow can make any job enjoyable.

Even the most mundane job can be enjoyable if it means you are “in-flow”. The speaker presented a way to determine if your life is in flow which I really like…

“Flow is when you need an alarm clock to remind you to go to bed.”

“When life feels like it is ‘difficult’ – you are definitely not in flow”

3) Know where you are on the 9 levels of wealth and make a commitment to move to the next level.

The different levels of wealth are:

Levels 7 to 9, the Trustee, the Composer, and the Legend

He didn’t go to deeply into these but they are the real high achievers such as Steve Jobs and Richard Branson. Top political figures may also feature here. Anyone at this level is able to influence on a global scale.

Levels 4 – 6, The Player, The Performer, and The Conductor

These are the marketplace levels, here you’ll find people that don’t depend on a regular monthly wage from an employer such as business owners, self employed people, and people with in-demand talents.

Levels 1 – 3, The Victim, The Survivor, and The Worker

These are the workplace levels. Hopefully no one reading this is at level 1 or 2, if you are then aim for Level 3. Level 3 is where most people are and if that’s you then the move to one of the marketplace levels may well be your goal.

At each level there is upward and downward envy. For example, at the performer level you may be an accomplished performer in an orchestra, but you may feel like you’d be better off with the responsibility of the conductor. Likewise, you may have downward envy and long for the days where you could step back and be a player – out on your own and not having the responsibility of playing within a group of musicians.

For more information on the Wealth Dynamics, Roger Hamilton’s books were recommended to me as an excellent resource. I’ve just ordered ‘Wink and Grow Rich’ on Amazon and cant wait to read it.

4) Have a big “why?”

To move up the wealth spectrum you need to have a good reason to do so, otherwise it won’t be a priority in your life and you’ll end up getting caught up in other things. The speaker gave an example about Sir Richard Branson. You may know about his Virgin Galactic company; the first to offer the general public the chance to go into space at a reasonable price (well if $200k sounds reasonable to you, I’m sure it will get cheaper in time). Richard Branson didn’t actually have enough of his own money to start the company and make it work, but he had a big ‘Why’, so he made it happen regardless.

The speaker said that Branson’s ‘why’ was to allow politicians to see the world without any borders. With a ‘Why’ like this it gave him the motivation to see the project through no matter what obstacles got in the way. When it looked like the engine would be too expensive to produce within the constraints of his budget, he used his creative ability to devise a competition which gave the opportunity for engineers to develop the engine and win 10 million pounds. This was a substantial saving on what it would have cost him to develop the engine conventionally.

5) Know where you are on the Wealth Spectrum.

I have to admit I was concentrating a little too hard on what the speaker was saying about this to take notes. It’s all about the different types of people there are in terms of what behaviour is most comfortable to us, it’s quite involved but luckily I found this excellent little video…

‘Wink and Grow’ is sure to have has lots of information on this topic.

6) Know about the process of “luck”

The critical elements of luck are:

  • Location – be at the right place in the right time (and be the right person J). As nice as it can be, a critical moment is unlikely to occur sitting at home watching TV.
  • Connections – knowing the right people, and different types of people (see number 5) is key.
  • Knowledge.
  • Understanding.

For luck to occur you need to take advantage of critical moments when they crop up, and you do need to be clear on your vision to be able to do this. There are plenty of great resources I can recommend with regard to vision so please let me know if you need them.

So there you have it, 6 cool things to help you not only love your work, but get paid well for it too, I hope there is something here of benefit to you!

Best Regards,
Mark

When Procrastination is Useful

I’ve just finished reading a new book called The Power Of Adversity (a link to it is at the bottom of this post) and something in it reminded me of a technique for limiting almost all negative thoughts or feelings.

In the book the author presents the idea of setting aside an hour or so each day as your designated time to worry about things. The author’s idea is to deal very tough adversity. Hopefully you are in a good place right now, but that said, doesn’t everybody experience the odd bit of negativity here, and, a bit of beating up on yourself there?

I use to worry a lot… about the past, the future, where I was heading, that I wasn’t achieving enough etc. The first technique I learnt was to go on a ‘negative thought fast’, where for 30 days whenever anything negative enters your mind you instantly banish it. This can work well for some people, but I found a major flaw in it. Whenever you catch yourself with a negative thought you are very likely to beat yourself up (mentally) for thinking it, and what you resist always persists! The more you try and stop yourself having a negative thought the harder you beat yourself up for having one.

So, how to solve this problem? Whenever I want to program a new behaviour into myself I always try and make use of the ways we naturally operate. For example, procrastination is a natural behaviour for most of us, everybody does it to some degree and I know I do it a lot. So I decided why not procrastinate on my negative thinking? I decided to set aside 30 minutes at the start of each lunch hour whereby I was allowed to have all the negative thoughts I wanted, I gave myself permission to really let rip about every aspect of myself and my life.

After trying this, two incredible things happened. Firstly, I found it quite easy to procrastinate on my negative thoughts.

Secondly, when it came around to the time where I allowed myself to have the negative thoughts, I no longer felt like doing it! Honestly, I couldn’t even if I tried… really REALLY hard!

So, the next time you catch yourself in a negative mind-set, don’t beat yourself up about it, just make the decision to procrastinate until the next day at a specific time. Don’t be surprised that when the time comes to dwell on your negative thought it has either vanished or simply become irrelevant. I bet that when you try and force yourself to be negative it’s actually much harder than you might think!

The Power of Adversity: Tough Times Can Make You Stronger, Wiser, and Better

The best forum there is

Having searched the World Wide Web many times for self development forums over the last 10 years or so, the best one I’ve found by far is the one hosted by Tony Robbins.

There are literally hundreds of thousands of posts and thousands of members, many which are very supportive and helpful. It’s a great place to find advice about relationships, finance, health and more… all with the influence of Tony Robbins.

You can find it here: http://www2.anthonyrobbins.com/community_dev2/index.php

Excellent reading for your spare time!

Recession survival skills from Tony Robbins

I just found this video of Tony Robbins being interviewed on ABC’s “Good Morning America” a few days ago.

He answers questions viewers’ questions on the state of the economy.

It’s always nice (and comforting in these troubled economic times) to hear Tony’s perspective, this 5 minute video has some excellent practical advice…

Need Some Help With Confidence?

Lack of confidence or simply becoming very nervous in a given situation is something we all experience at one time or another.  Qualified accredited Life Coach and Master NLP Practitioner Angela Dunbar reveals some great techniques for dealing with lack of confidence in typically challenging situations (see link below).  I recently had to deliver a Best Man’s speech at my brother’s wedding, I found Angela’s advice to be very helpful, and guess what? People laughed at my jokes and congratulated me on my delivery, composure and commented on how unnerved I appeared!

http://www.self-help-product-reviews.com/how-to-feel-confidence.html

A great blog for success

Here is a blog you’ll probably really really like…

http://www.successdemandsaction.com

I’ve had a good read and can wholeheartedly say it has some really great content.

It’s topics vary, some of my favorite posts are those with inspirational quotes, such as these from John Assaraf…

http://www.successdemandsaction.com/2009/04/john-assaraf-inspirational-quotes.html

Finally Revealed: Does the Law of Attraction Work or Not?

I have to admit: Mark Joyner is probably the “funnest” person to watch in the world.

This guy kind of lives his life (including his ups and downs) in the public eye.

This latest from him promises to be very exciting to watch:

http://www.simpleology.com/p/blog/info1211/

Is he about to do a “full 180″ on his stance on the “Law of Attraction” ????

I don’t know what he has up his sleeve, but this promises to be one of the most interesting blog posts of the year …

Enjoy!

Mark

An amazing EFT event for you…register for free…

I’d like to announce a very exciting event that I believe is the first of its kind.

Here is a little something to get you interested…It’s FREE! Sure, we all love free stuff but what’s even better is that you won’t have to travel, or book a hotel, or sit in a meeting room…you can experience the entire event from the comfort of your own home!

The event is called the EFT World Summit and features some of the top minds and practitioners in the world of Emotional Freedom Techniques, such as Carol Look, Dr. Patricia Carrington, Brad Yates, Bob Doyle, Carol Tuttle…in fact, there will be over 16 instructors in all…just take a look here at what you will get, at no charge to you:

http://www.self-help-product-reviews.com/tryitoneverything

All these experts will gather together their combined knowledge to immerse you in the world of EFT, to help you create better emotional and physical health, prosperity, clarity, energy focus and much, much more…

Never before has a panel like this been assembled…and it may never happen again, so I’d like to encourage you to get registered right away.

Also, there is a free EFT e-book that you can download by clicking on this link…

http://www.self-help-product-reviews.com/tryitoneverything2

Meet up groups with like minded people

A website that is gaining popularity is www.meetup.com

Last time I checked there was over 57 thousand groups, and there are many in the area of self help and personal growth.

Just type in “personal growth”, “Tony Robbins” or any other subject into the websites search facility and you’re bound to find a group near you.

I shall report back on my experience attending a couple of the groups over the next few months.

Meanwhile, please check out my personal review of a free Rich Dad Poor Dad seminar I attended last week, and find details of how you can find one near to where you live.

http://www.self-help-product-reviews.com/rich-dad-poor-dad-seminar.html

Best wishes,

Mark

Hi, just to announce I have written a personal experience review of The Genotype Diet, an eating and lifestyle plan that is personalized for your genetic make-up.

You can read it here:

http://www.self-help-product-reviews.com/the-genotype-diet-review.html

Best wishes,

Mark